• Life After Defeat?… Yes! (2)


    In order to have a meaningful and successful Life after Defeat, Step 1 is to separate Who YOU ARE from WHAT HAPPENED (the event).  Now the next steps: Take Time to Reflect Avoid far reaching decisions while you are ‘feeling blue.’ Choices under such conditions are likely to be emotion driven, ill advised, and wrong.…

    Read More: Life After Defeat?… Yes! (2)
  • Life After Defeat?…Yes!


    How do we recover from ‘defeat?’ The pregnancy test came back negative. Again! The lab tests came out positive: you do have the disease! You failed the comprehensive final exam Can’t graduate. Can’t advance to the next level. You are not going to be the professional you always wanted to be nurse, doctor, engineer, lawyer,…

    Read More: Life After Defeat?…Yes!
  • The Next Steps Towards Your Life Goal!


    Step One – Clarify  Your Life Goal Write it down in one or two sentences Separate out the means to the goal from the goal itself A friend said to me that if an Angel gave her one wish, she would ask for ‘Money’! “What will you do with it?” I asked. “I will open…

    Read More: The Next Steps Towards Your Life Goal!